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Restitution & Making Amends: When Apology Is Not Enough

In the SHM Community Forums, Dini responded to one member who is worried because he had inadvertently hurt his co-worker with a joke. He wrote:

Frances,

First of all glad to "meet" you; I don't believe I've had the honor.  Glad you came here for support; I haven't been around long but find that there are insightful, supportive folks around here.

Infidelity and A Cyber Affair

In the SHM Forums, Jimmy responded to one member who had an affair for the reason of wanting  to love and to be loved. Jimmy wrote:

Topaz,

I am deeply moved by your post and not sure what to answer. The subject line of your posts reads:  Why does it hurt so much…

All I can say is that only God knows exactly how much you hurt, yet to me, your post screeches with pain.

At One's Wit's End

In the SHM Community Forums, Joanne responded to one member who seemed to be overwhelmed and hopeless about all that was happening. She wrote:

Moco, You are saying too much with too few words. I can't be sure what you are meaning.

How To End Your Marriage and Leave Your Spouse

In the SHM Community forums, Manuel wrote a response for a wife who doesn't love his husband anymore but never had the guts to leave her marriage. He said:

Christian,

New Life After Divorce

In the SHM Community Forums, Jimmy responded to one member who's concerned about getting her life back after a divorce. He said:

Alittleunsure,

Welcome to these forums!

Truthfulness & Lying In Marriage

Here's an enlightening post from Jimmy about baring your soul, letting go and keeping connected as a response to one member who had been holding back herself to her husband because of trust issues. He wrote:

Sex: Do You Have The Right to Say "No" to Your Husband?

In the SHM Community Forums, Manuel responded to one member who felt that she's not good enough for a wife just because she can't satisfy her husband in bed. He said:

Jessica,

Boyfriend's Daughters

In  the SHM Community Forums, Jimmy responded to the concern of one member who had some issues with her boyfriend's daughters. He answered:

When Your Parents Won't Listen

In the SHM Community Forums, Lily responded to one member who shared about her mom who doesn't really listen to what she says. She said:

Mirmi,

It's good to get your news.

Cheat For Revenge On A Cheater

In the SHM Community Forum, Joanne responded to one member who had an unhealthy desire for revenge on his wife and at the same time, would really like to know why she doesn't love him anymore. She says: